As teens attend more social engagements on their own, knowledge of appropriate social grace is essential. A strong foundation of social grace develops into self-confidence and respectful relationships. These skills take practice, but with effort, your teen will feel comfortable meeting people for the first time and interacting with them.
7 Essential Social Graces Teens Should Know
Introductions and Greetings
Developing the habit of offering a friendly greeting and appropriately acknowledging others shows respect. Teach teens to execute a proper introduction by teaching them to stand, extend their hand and say, “Hello my name is first and last name.” When the person says his or her name repeat it. Say that it is nice to meet her. Also teach teens the “formula”younger people are introduced to elders.
Conversational Skills
Conversational skills are an art that overtime with practice becomes natural. Learning how to contribute and conduct conversation, the give and take of dialogue will benefit teens as they navigate their way into adulthood. Teach them to make eye contact, listen then respond and Include others in conversation.
Thank You Notes
Teach teens how and when to write a thank you note. With some guidance this will become part of their adult routine.
Cell Phone Etiquette
Cell phones have become permanent fixtures in the hands of teenagers. Give your teen framework for the appropriate way to use this technology. Teens need to be reminded the people right in front of them come first. Always.
Proper Table Manners
Teens should have an understanding about what is appropriate and inappropriate when dining in various social situations.
Social Media
It is important that teens be mindful of what they post on social media. The golden rule is to never post anything on social media that you wouldn’t want to see on a billboard.
Integrity
Being a teenager is a process. Developing integrity is a process. Teens that learn to be honest and true to their word grow in character and integrity.
With some gentle coaching teens will be able to adopt a respectful attitude towards others.
