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A Lost Art?
First, I want to applaud your curiosity! You are and wondering if behaving like a lady is still relevant. In today’s society, so many are stuck in the mindset that conducting oneself like a lady implies something negative. Are you wondering if acting like a lady has become a lost art? I’m going to be positive! I believe there is still an interest and a craving for class, elegance and grace.
I want to point out a strange dichotomy going on. Our expectations of appropriate behavior seem to start at the top. We want our first lady to be just that a Lady. Yet, there is a culture that thinks if a woman presents herself as a lady, she is seen in an unfavorable light. Perceived as weak or submissive, our culture fights against the idea of behaving with ladylike qualities. Perhaps there’s an unrealistic fear we might go backward in time.
The Art of being a Lady is recognizing YOUR self-worth and interacting with the world around you with GRACE.
The Skillful Combination
The art of being a lady is the skillful combination of confidence, graciousness and inner strength. You’ve seen her, she has a presence, an aura. She knows who she is and shares her strengths with everyone. Her sincerity is contagious and those around her feel at ease and comfortable. The key is to approach life without negativity. Negative thoughts and behavior obliterate beauty. Make the decision to approach every day with a smile even when you don’t feel like it. Your weapons to face the world are a powerful duo of poise and gratitude.
Did You Forgot Something?
The art of a lady is not shallow. It’s more than dressing fashionably, piling on face cream, and swinging a designer purse over your shoulder. Those are style steps but, there’s so much more. The warmth in your soul should be shared. Accessorize with kind words, your smile, and good character. Fashion sense without a warm demeanor is a waste of time.
Carry Yourself Well
Your body language speaks volumes about how you feel about yourself. Carry yourself in a way that radiates warmth and confidence. You already know the basics, chin up and no slouching. Your true inner soul will shine when you are comfortable in your own skin. This may take some practice but it is totally possible and totally achievable! Own your confidence. Send a clear message that you are sincere and approachable.
What Message are You Sending?
The goal of a lady is to be taken seriously at work, at home and socially. Being a lady is not about wearing dresses 24/7. The goal is presenting yourself in a way that allows people to react to you positively. When you look and feel good you behave differently. You may feel it’s unfair to be assessed and judged by your appearance but, it’s human nature to react to the outward appearance of others. This is one way we gauge who we interact with and who we stay away from. I’m not saying clothing is the sum of a person. There is so much more to a person than their clothes. I’m talking about your self-presentation. Showcase your modesty and embrace your dignity.
Female Friendship
A lady is not envious of other women. When she is with her friends she remains poised and self-assured. Compassion and a good nature enable her to speak kindly about other women. She’s happier all around because she maintains true friendships and cheers on other women.
Gratitude
The most important attribute of a lady is gratitude. Her beauty is from her heart and she recognizes the importance of cultivating gratitude. Gratitude is not only an action, it’s an attitude.
Wisdom
A lady has learned the fine art of humility, accepting herself, and uncompromising her values.
